Most People Have A Mild Addiction To Compliments: Give It To Them
Champions praise people lavishly and often
“Amateur performers tend to see praise as a luxury, to be passed on sparingly to others from time to time.
Champions praise people lavishly and often; they use praise as an integral component in their everyday interactions.
Most people are starving for praise, due to the fact that most of the population are ametuers in the art of interpersonal communication.
Emotional creatures have a high-need, and even a mild addiction, to the sweet-sounding words of encouragement and recognition.”
— 177 Mental Toughness Secrets of the World Class
My mother is an expert at giving compliments; if you want any sort of praise go to her, and she will douse it all over you.
But for most of us, we suck ass at praising others consistently and lavishly — especially with people we’re familiar with.
Don’t give praise just to give it.
Give praise to add value to others, which will ultimately add value to your life.
When we lift others, we lift ourselves.
And be sure to personalize your praise.
At the top of the day, Tony Robbins reaches out to one person and blesses them with a genuinely tailored compliment. Try it and notice how it makes you feel and also enhances your relationships.
This was a super great article. John Maxwell, talks about the importance of giving out sincere compliments.
Thanks so much.
Rainbow