The Grind Isn't Sexy; It's Pain And Discomfort
Which is why most people never experience the glory that comes with success
“Everything worthwhile in life is uphill. Everything.” —John C. Maxwell
What’s YOUR Current Objective?
For those working on their business, side gig, or any career or academic objective, life will likely encompass late nights, less sleep, less free time, fewer hangouts and conversations with friends and family, little availability for extracurriculars, and high consequences whenever engaging with a distraction (e.g., less progress and wasted time—an irreplaceable resource).
For those working on their physical health, life will likely encompass uncomfortable workouts, less eating out, less snacking, zero overeating, hunger pangs, more vegetables, more water, learning how to say “no,” and dealing with uncomfortable-tempting cravings.
For those working on their relationships, life will likely encompass discomforting conversations, therapy, painful books, and time spent on improving the self.
For those working on eliminating their addictions, life will likely encompass facing your demons, experiencing painful withdrawals, understanding and implementing self-discipline, and attending group.
The process for these goals is not sexy in any capacity; if anything, the process is grueling, demanding, and a true test of your willpower.
Whatever your goal is will require tremendous discipline in some form.
Discipline is pain, and if you continue to avoid pain, your goals will remain precisely that…a goal.
Are You Willing To Climb To The Top Of The Mountain?
To reach your goals will require you to climb the mountain.
Recently, I went hiking at Multnomah Falls. I thought it would be a leisurely hike, but it was a straight shot up—similar to my Yosemite hike.
Though the hike was twelve times shorter than Yosemite, it was a mental challenge that I had to force myself to push through—especially considering I was running off very little sleep.
I wasn’t going to allow myself to quit. I was going to make it to the top, and when I did make it to the top—completely soaked—it was one of the most exhilarating feelings.
Most people stayed at the bottom of the falls or only climbed up halfway.
Very few people were at the top, and that’s how life is. No one wants to face the pain that comes before the glory.
Who will you be?
Will you face the discomfort to reach your goals, or shall you settle for mediocrity as most people do throughout their lives?