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Over the various years of living my life, I have seen, heard, read, and came across many different women who were inspirational, gorgeous, fascinating, fabulous, beautiful, intelligent, loving, caring kind, thoughtful, nurturing, independent, fearless, fierce, insightful, phenomenal, funny, famous, courageous, strong, spiritual, influential, and faithful, but more importantly all of them embrace the significance of their inner spirit and love for themselves.

Sadly, in our world some of the pettiness or selfishness others; consequently, may have occurred directly or indirectly in

some of these women's lifetime.

These women were resilient and mindful to withstand their prosecution to find the essence of their true worth from God. These women have been the anchor as well as the foundation of our own existence as well. Much is given and much is required, but some of us have the tendency to take for granted their presence, grace, and significance of being in our lives. I acknowledge that sometimes I have forgotten the greatness of their influential presence in my life also. Anyway, I hope and pray that because of these wonderful and spectacular experiences with some of these women my life has been extremely blessed by their presence, essence, and aura to be given life lessons that have given the understanding of unconditional love.

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We have some people who are either stupid or clueless about what is right or wrong for how another adult conducts himself or herself. Our society has a double standard that is ridiculous where men are allowed to do whatever, but women are forbidden to think for themselves. Sadly, this mentality has bias as well as unfair to women over the centuries. I attest that the dynamics of stupidity has finally hit rock bottom; consequently, women have been able to make the necessary changes for their personal health and financial stability. Now, universal law has flipped the archaic system of one sidedness of men thinking that they are in control, but I have always known that women dictate when something gets done. Only foolish men believe that they run the world, I remember a conversation with my mother years ago. She told me back then that women run the world, but women let men to think that men are in charge of running the world. Nothing gets done until a woman says yes or no! Lesson for today is understanding your role as well as your lane!

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Be architect who inspires or uplifts others because the world has enough critics!

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You do not need know the answer to the question, but you must have a sense of curiosity to ask questions to eliminate the wrong answers!

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Everyone will questioned, but few will believe in you without hesitation.

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Remember that some people will give you their opinion about how you should live your life, but I pray that you pause for a moment to realize that an opinion is usually not based on facts. An opinion is a projection of a misguided talking point that needed to express for whatever reason, I will recommend that you make some self assessments of your needs in life first and foremost. You are the CEO of your life, but you are the conductor of the symphony of melody and rhythm the of results you need!

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To create one must have a vision, but one needs an inspiration from the deepest depth of one's own vulnerability to excel beyond the monster named fear!

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Reality is real, but the dream is the manifestation of the reality about to become real! Never stop dreaming because you are your possibilities of the impossible! Dreams are the gateway to the possibilities of the supposedly impossible! Success awaits those who are willing to make their dreams three dimensional and functional.

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Never be afraid to fail or fall because in both scenarios you will plant a valuable as well as insightful lesson of fearlessness. Without struggle or adversity, you lack the knowledge conquering the possibilities of any of life's experiences. Life does not play fair, but you have the option to endure by your own personal response which is uniquely yours! Greatness comes with the willingness to sacrifice for one's own success! Either you step up to the plate and swing or you sit idle on fence hoping for a miracle! The difference between wishing or doing is one's action or lack of action, but fear is the greatest killer of any dream!

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